THere are fundamental principles in life which, unconsciously or consciously, you either use for - or against - you. To improve your situation and become more successful, simply correct your mistakes. Rather than self sabotage, learn time-tested strategies to make more effective choices!
Simply stated, the Law of Attraction tells us that we become a magnet for whatever we give our attention to; whether it's wanted or not. The Law of Attraction isn't some "fluffy stuff" --this is a law of nature; practical, down to earth, solidly grounded in history and science.